Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts

Saturday, July 9, 2016

Zootopia - a Life Inspiration


Zootopia is a great animation I would recommend for everyone. It's an action-packed with a great lesson to tell and inspiring quotes too.


A small bunny who grew up on a carrot farm named Judy Hopps aimed to make the world a better place trained so hard to be the first bunny cop even though a lot scoffed at her. As soon as she graduated the police academy, she was officially assigned to the heart of Zootopia. Zootopia is a beautiful metropolis where all animals live in harmony. But when 14 animal predators went missing, Judy wormed her way into taking the case. Partnering with the con artist fox named Nick Wilde, they surge through the dangers to solve the case. 

What really captivates me with this film is the way Judy Hopps pursued her dreams. She was scoffed, bullied, undermined, belittled, you name it! But she never loses hope. She got hurt, she suffered, she sacrificed and never wavered for her goal in life. To be a police officer and make the world a better place. Like anyone else, she makes mistakes. Admittedly, she was devastated for a while for that mistake, she created chaos in the entire Zootopia and almost lost her best friend in the process. But it was not for long. She manages to stand up and make things right. On top of that, she also inspired her parents to open up their minds and consider things that out of the norm. 
“I had a lot of self-doubt and it manifested itself in a form of unchecked rage and aggression” – Gideon grey
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And also, Kudos to Gideon Grey because in the end, he not only realized he made a mistake when he was young, he also changed his ways and apologized for it which definitely takes a lot of courage. 
As an individual, it inspires me to be myself more and keep on reaching my goal. Even if other people think you are disillusioned. And as a parent, my belief became firmer that the most wonderful gifts that I can give to my child are accepting who she is and believing in her.

Quotes from Zootopia

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“I can make the world a better place. It may seem impossible to small minds but anyone can be anything.” - Young Judy

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"Gideon is right about one thing. I don’t know when to quit.” – young Judy

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"The only thing we have to fear is the fear itself."

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"Tommorrow is another day."

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"Life isn't some cartoon musical where you sing a little song and all your insipid dreams magically come true." - Chief Bogo

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"Never let them see that they get to you." - Nick Wilde

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"Real life’s a little bit more complicated than a slogan on a bumper sticker. Real life is messy. We all have limitations. We all make mistakes. Which means, we all have a lot in common. And the more we try to understand one another the more exceptional each of us will be. But we have to try. I implore you, try. Try to make the world a better place."

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"Look inside yourself and recognize that change starts with you. It starts with me. It starts with all of us."

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Treat life like a sea


"A smooth sea never made a skillful sailor"

Life can be hard. Waves of trial can be overwhelming. However, soon after the storm, you will realize that what happened has a purpose and everything that you've been through made you stronger. Yes, sometimes it's easier to just give up. When that thought flashed your mind, look behind you and see what you already overcome and how far you have gone. And most importantly, look beside you and see who and what you are fighting for. Hold on to them and you will be able to go through. 

This is a constant reminder to myself and I am still here fighting... 

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

The grieving heart: loss of a love one


“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
Death is something inevitable. It will all come to us sooner or later. That is something we all understand. But still, it hits hard when someone very dear to us pass away. It’s probably the most heart wrenching event of our lives. We feel a lot of emotions that is too much to bear. When this moment happen to you. Know that you are not alone.

5 stages of grief by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, author of “On Death and Dying”
Photo credit to the owner


"Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it." – Albus Dumbledore
                Not all people have the same way of grieving. Whether you cry your heart out or don’t talk to anybody for a while, you are entitled to it. What’s important is to address your feelings. You may also feel regrets, guilt, anger and confusion along with that devastating pain, express it. You may talk to other love ones about how you feel (but do it when you’re ready) or you can find a creative way to express your feelings. Some may tell you that you have to be strong in facing your loss, but a strong facade will only delay the inevitable. You will still feel it and though grief doesn’t have a deadline, it will only prolong your healing process.

                Also, allow you family and friends to be there for you. It will help to have a support group whom you can talk to about your feelings (when you already feel like it) and sometimes, their mere presence can be a comfort already. It’s good to know that there are people who will support you, but then, you have to let them in.

“It is only when no one remembers that you are truly lost. That is the true death.” -Michael Scott
                Cherish all those memories you created together. At first, reminiscing can be very painful. But eventually, this will help you find solace for your loss. They are never truly gone so long as you keep those memories with you.

“Do not pity the dead. Pity the living. And above all, those who live without love.” –Albus Dumbledore
                Personally, the only way I achieved the final stage of grief easier than some will call necessary is because I always believed that one day, all of us will reach the end of the line. Either me first, or the ones I love. And somewhere, wherever they are, they are happier than I am for they are already in a place where there can be no pain, only love, peace and happiness. Don’t get it wrong. I still feel the pain from time to time and I don’t think it will really go away. But it’s no longer overwhelming. When I remember them, it’s now mixed up with good memories.

                And lastly, as you cherish the memories of your loss loved one, do not forget (and be afraid) to create more with your other love ones. Do not shut yourself away. Our loss should be a reminder of how short life can be. Celebrate life. Enjoy life. Gain Peace.